Wednesday, January 13, 2016

Listening to those in Need

"Moved with pity, Jesus stretched out his hand, touched the leper, and said to him, 'I do will it. Be made clean.'”

Paying attention to others, especially when they speak, is a simple act of courtesy that every person deserves, especially children and the elderly, and Jesus seems always ready to listen to those most in need. Unfortunately, for any number of reasons, we often fail in this regard. We are busy, distracted, and anxious or have a cluttered mind or schedule. Unfortunately, because children and the aging have less to distract them, they notice when we are not listening, and while they may not say anything, they are often hurt and confused by our failure to be fully present to them.

The Venerable Solanus Casey, a Capuchin friar who died more than 60 years ago, and whose cause for sainthood has already begun, was best known for his ability to listen to others with compassion. Each day at the Capuchin friary in Detroit, Michigan, people would line up for an opportunity to speak with him. Some wanted him to intercede with God to cure them. Others wanted prayers for a job. Most simply wanted to be with him for he was said to have a calming effect on people. As is often said about the people who go to Lourdes, they might not all be cured, but all of them are healed.  Solanus Casey healed people by listening with openness of spirit and compassion to all those who came to the friary, and his gentle listening reminded people that God listens, too, and will never abandon us.

Today, listen to the first person you meet with compassion.

Has anyone ever "healed" you simply by listening? 

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