Monday, February 10, 2014

Finding the Positive in Others

"This people honors me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me; In vain do they worship me, teaching as doctrines human precepts." Mk 7:6-7

In a world as fast faced as ours, it is difficult not to lose focus. With so many messages coming at us thousands of times a day, we find ourselves spouting platitudes rather than thoughtful responses. One friend watching the Super Bowl last week humorously said:  I bet the announcers are frustrated. They can't say anything about the frozen tundra of Met Life Stadium in New Jersey. This after listening to local New York sports commentators speak endlessly about what a disaster snow would be for the U.S.'s biggest show.

Because we all fall into the trap of saying things over and over, we have some compassion for the Pharisees in today's Gospel. Doing everything they could to trap Jesus with his own words and actions, the Pharisees find themselves looking for anything to discredit Jesus and his disciples. Eating without washing one's hands, while an important ritual for Jews, was hardly earth shaking. Unable, however, to find anything else about Jesus' behavior to undermine his growing power and popularity, the Pharisees fixate on the faults of Jesus' followers, not his amazing and compelling compassion for the broken.

It is the rare person, when confronted with the good deeds of someone they dislike, who would be able to celebrate the good rather than focus on the faults of a foe. When we are really upset, we are blinded to the goodness in the life of others or interpret their exemplary behavior as an attempt to distract others from their true selves. The Gospel reminds us that Jesus is always looking for the good in others and wants us to do the same.

Today, think of and pray for someone you dislike.

How do you counter your tendency to focus on another's faults and sins?

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