"Let your acquaintances be many, but one in a thousand your confidant." Sir. 6:6
Especially when we are deeply worried about a decision we need to make, we can seek out so many opinions that we can't keep them straight. While this is understandable, it is not a good practice. As the Book of Wisdom assures us, we might have or make dozens of acquaintances, but we can have only a few confidants, people who we trust know us, always have our good in mind, and are willing to tell us not to do something!
Having a few friends who walk faithfully by our side is a great gift, not only when we are in need of a good listener, but for the everyday decisions we all make. Good friends listen, advise, caution, celebrate our triumphs and weep when we fail. They do not manipulate or nag, neither do they speak to or with others about our the intimate issues that emerge in our lives.
Sometimes we call these people "soul friends," confidants who share our faith and questions about faith. Soul friends help us discern and live a Gospel life. They trust God and root their love for us in God's love. Indeed, if we have one authentic soul friend in our life we are very blessed.
Today, be the friend someone else needs you to be. Nothing more, nothing less.
What do you value most in a friend?
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